The Waite Forty-Two-Card Tableau (First 6×7 Deal) gives room to look back on an experience with many threads. After a relationship ends, memories of distance may sit alongside happy trips and times when you cared for each other. Understanding the relationship means making room for both.
Forty-two cards form six rows of seven. Each row is read from right to left, connecting neighboring cards before considering themes that recur across rows. The spread can help organize experiences already known; it cannot supply a former partner’s unspoken thoughts.
What the six rows mean
These positions preserve a sequence rather than assigning separate subjects such as cause or outcome. The rightmost card opens each row, five middle cards connect what comes before and after them, and the leftmost card closes that particular line.
| Fixed position | General role |
|---|---|
| Line 1 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
| Line 2 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
| Line 3 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
| Line 4 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
| Line 5 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
| Line 6 | Seven neighboring cards, read from right to left; no assigned life theme or stage. |
The first row is not automatically the beginning of the relationship, nor is the sixth automatically the breakup. One theme can appear in several rows, and closeness and distance can occur within the same line.
Waite’s alternative method also involves regrouping cards and handling the significator representing the questioner, followed by a further reading with the remaining thirty-five cards. Startarot uses a direct forty-two-card draw, one card per grid position. This example applies the continuous reading structure to a relationship retrospective; Waite did not prescribe it specifically as a romance spread.
A warm past and an ending that also belongs to the story
Imagine a three-year relationship that has ended. Early on, the couple enjoyed sharing everyday details. They traveled together and looked after each other during illness. There were times of real closeness and security.
Later, their working hours changed. They attended fewer gatherings with mutual friends. They mentioned their future several times without making shared arrangements. They saw each other less often, the relationship grew distant, and they eventually agreed to separate.
Remembering both the care and the distance, the reader asks:
How did our relationship end up here?
All six rows address this already completed experience. Each card’s meaning comes from its symbolism, its neighbors and that background. No row is assigned in advance to romance, work or separation, and later cards do not forecast the couple’s future.
The complete illustrative draw below uses common Rider–Waite–Smith meanings. Upright means the card faces its usual way; reversed means it is upside down. The table lists reading order: the first card listed in each row occupies the actual right edge of the layout.
| Line | Reading order: actual right edge → left edge |
|---|---|
| Line 1 | Six of Cups (upright) → The Sun (upright) → Two of Cups (upright) → Six of Pentacles (upright) → Two of Pentacles (reversed) → Eight of Wands (reversed) → Four of Cups (upright) |
| Line 2 | Eight of Pentacles (upright) → The Emperor (upright) → Three of Pentacles (reversed) → Two of Swords (upright) → Two of Wands (upright) → The Hanged Man (upright) → Eight of Cups (upright) |
| Line 3 | Queen of Cups (upright) → Queen of Pentacles (upright) → Five of Pentacles (reversed) → Strength (upright) → Nine of Wands (upright) → Page of Cups (reversed) → Four of Swords (upright) |
| Line 4 | Three of Cups (reversed) → The Hermit (upright) → Nine of Pentacles (upright) → Four of Wands (reversed) → The World (reversed) → Ten of Cups (reversed) → Six of Swords (upright) |
| Line 5 | The Lovers (upright) → Justice (upright) → Ace of Swords (upright) → Queen of Swords (upright) → Death (upright) → Five of Cups (upright) → The Star (upright) |
| Line 6 | Ace of Cups (upright) → Page of Wands (upright) → The Chariot (reversed) → Wheel of Fortune (upright) → Seven of Pentacles (upright) → Judgement (upright) → Temperance (upright) |
Closeness did not automatically make daily life fit together
The first row opens with the Six of Cups, The Sun and the Two of Cups. Remembered affection, open enjoyment and mutual affection fit the happiness described in the background. The Six of Pentacles brings that affection into practical giving and receiving, including the care they offered during illness.
The reversed Two of Pentacles then introduces difficulty balancing everyday demands, echoing their changed working hours. The reversed Eight of Wands suggests slower contact and progress; the Four of Cups adds less engagement with the time they still spent together. Neither identifies who became distant first. Together, they show how real warmth could coexist with fewer everyday exchanges sustaining it.
The Eight of Pentacles and The Emperor begin the second row with persistent work and established arrangements. In this case, each person’s life had its own demands. The reversed Three of Pentacles draws attention to difficulty coordinating together: individual order does not guarantee shared arrangements.
The Two of Swords brings stalemate, the Two of Wands consideration of future direction, and The Hanged Man something still unresolved. They fit the future conversations that never became a common plan. The Eight of Cups at the left edge echoes the separation that already happened. It connects leaving with what had remained unsettled, without judging who should have left.
Care can remain real while expression becomes harder
The Queen of Cups concerns emotional attention; the Queen of Pentacles concerns practical care. Together in row three, they fit both kinds of support in the relationship. The reversed Five of Pentacles can suggest hardship beginning to ease or support becoming available: at times, the relationship helped make hardship less solitary.
Strength brings gentle endurance, but the Nine of Wands beside it carries weariness and guardedness. Keeping something going can become tiring even while care remains. This does not establish which person gave more.
The reversed Page of Cups suggests feelings that are awkward or difficult to express. The Four of Swords closes the row with quiet and withdrawal. Alongside the slower exchanges in row one, the line suggests that the memories of care endured while fewer feelings found expression. Silence neither erases the past nor proves that the difficulties were resolved.
Separate lives continued while a shared life remained unfinished
The reversed Three of Cups in row four echoes fewer opportunities to socialize together. The Hermit turns attention inward, and the Nine of Pentacles suggests the ability to sustain an independent life.
That independence can be stable in itself. Beside the reversed Four of Wands, however, it raises the question of whether the couple’s shared foundation was equally secure. The reversed World adds incompleteness, while the reversed Ten of Cups suggests expectations of a shared life that did not come together. The Six of Swords closes the line with transition: after the separation, life could move onward while feelings remained unsettled.
An ending does not erase what the relationship contained
Row five opens with The Lovers, Justice and the Ace of Swords: connection and choice, careful weighing, and clearer understanding. Choosing each other in the past and reassessing the relationship later do not cancel each other out.
The Queen of Swords brings clarity and boundaries; Death connects these with an ending and change, fitting the agreed separation. The Five of Cups acknowledges loss, while The Star leaves room for easing and hope. Grief and a little relief can coexist without turning the breakup into an inevitably happy liberation.
The last row returns to emotional beginnings through the Ace of Cups and the Page of Wands, with their affection, curiosity and willingness to explore. The reversed Chariot introduces difficulty coordinating direction. Wheel of Fortune adds changing conditions and rhythms. Read with rows two and four, the difficulty concerns daily life and shared direction gradually falling out of step, rather than a simple lack of early enthusiasm.
The Seven of Pentacles considers what has already been invested. Judgement brings the whole experience back into view, and Temperance allows different feelings to be understood together. These cards fit the reader’s present retrospective: remembering what was good does not remove the ending, and acknowledging the separation does not make past care false.
Across the tableau, the Six of Cups, Two of Cups and both Queens preserve affection and care. The reversed Three of Pentacles, Four of Wands and Chariot repeatedly highlight coordination, shared life and direction. Both threads belong to the relationship. It could have mattered deeply and still have become harder to continue as their lives changed. The forty-two cards give the space between “we were happy” and “we separated” a fuller shape.
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